Every individual has his own reaction to love. There are those who rush very quickly and who take blows and hurt themselves some time. There are those who go slowly to get to know each other well and decide what to do next, but there are also those who doubt and who always postpone the relationship “not now”.
Indeed, we must be careful that we do not hurt ourselves for a story that is not worth it, but how to know it?
The heart and intuition are the two guides
To answer this question, you must listen to what your heart and your intuition say, these are the two indispensable guides. You may say that the heart is a bad counselor especially when it has a strong feeling. But on the other hand, intuition, you can listen to it because it is only very rarely mistaken.
There are cases where two people meet but they do not get together until much later or never because it is not the time. Yes, this is what happens when one of them is not ready for a relationship while the other is already excited to embark on the adventure. What frustration for the latter. She does not know if she should slow down the pace or accelerate the movement or put pressure on herself? But when she has tried everything and nothing changes, will she give up and take a break?
Intuition
This is where intuition comes into play. Let’s say that this story happens to you and you do not know what to do if your intuition whispers to you that this person will never make you happy and that you feel humiliated, manipulated. In this case, drop and leak without turning around.
But if your intuition convinces you that this other person is your other half and that without it you are only the shadow of yourself then take courage and be patient to live finally unforgettable moments: intense and soothing. Never forget that it is in suffering and difficulty that happiness follow. After you have passed all these experiences, you will see that you have changed.