I have always been fascinated to know what unites people, how the union of twin flames and soul mates works. Why are we attracted to relationships that are out of the ordinary?
We all aspire not only to fall in love but also to participate in this kind of love story "once in our lives".
As we evolve, so does our love relationship.
We no longer content ourselves with practical relationships or seem to respond to specific ideas that our families or society have taught us.
We are looking for a kind of mad love that we only experience once in a lifetime - but what exactly distinguishes the relationship between the twin flames of soul mates and karmic relationships?
To tell the truth, one is not better than the other - it depends only on what we live here on Earth and what lessons we are now learning.
Sometimes we will not experience any of these relationships over a lifetime, and some will experience these three experiences.
The reality is that often we do not realize what type of relationships we experience until it has ended and we have learned the necessary lessons.
One of the first relationships we establish is usually karmic. Karmic relationships are general lessons we were unable to learn from a previous life - these relationships are not meant to spare us evils, because they are meant to change our way of life.
What generates such dependence on karmic relationships - it seems that no matter how many trials we give them, these relationships just do not seem to work.
But it is because karmic relationships are not supposed to work - we are not supposed to live our lives with a karmic partner.
This is something difficult to accept, as it is not usually a question of love, nor even of compatibility.
Something is simply missing and does not work, no matter how much we want this relationship to work - and the worst thing we can do is to choose not to let go.
Karmic relationships are flamboyant and seem almost intoxicating at times, but the ultimate goal of these types of relationships is to emerge into our lives, change us, and get out of our lives.
Often, people who married and divorced at a young age were married to a karmic relationship, instead of letting go when the time came.
The main lesson to be learned from this type of relationship is that we need to be strong enough to let them go when the time comes, because, no matter what kind of relationship we have, we should not be chained to it.
Although some of us may experience many karmic relationships over the course of a lifetime, which is the next step, after drawing these necessary lessons, is often the love of the soul mate.
Souls can be the best kind of love. Simple and gentle beings, but just as complex as an excellent vintage. soul mates are often the people we marry and with whom we choose to build our lives because there is a unique connection that is created. These are the people who bring us a sense of well-being in our lives, and that seem to touch us on a whole new level.
As wonderful as they may be, soul mates sometimes challenge us. This is one of the reasons why we are so confused when we know what kind of relationships we find, is that in all of these connections there are challenges.
None of these relationships consists in appeasing us or putting our ego at ease.
Yet the soul mate differs from the karmic relationship by the type of lesson one appends and by the way it presents itself in our lives.
Karmic relationships are often about the way we see the outside world and others - while the soulmate will trigger these inner lessons involving self-esteem, fear, social pressures and our value of self- love.
We simply bring to our attention the frequency we are currently experiencing.
Soul mates are the people with whom we feel an undeniable affinity as if we knew each other even before our encounter.
The most revealing element of a soulmate love is that it makes us feel as if it were up to us to make a work on ourselves - and over the other or the problems existing in the relationship.
Sometimes the relationship with the soul mate gives us even the feeling of not deserving the other person.
Some soul mates enter our lives for the sole purpose of helping us to realize our greatness, to take the time to ask the "big questions" involving the Self, to discover the answers favoring our evolution and the process of Self-consciousness.
Soul mates are also the people who care about us - unlike the karmic lover whose only concern is his own person and his own needs.
These wonderful types of ties do not necessarily have to be romantic, most of the time we meet with similar circles of souls during our lifetime - and those who represent our family are not necessarily those with whom we share the same blood.
Also transcendent and revealing that the amorous relationship with a soul mate can be, it is nothing compared to the experience of reconnection with our twin flame.
Twin flames are often regarded as an urban myth, but at the most, as society increases its awareness, at most this connection will occur.
Twin flames are a mixture of karmic tendencies and soul mates, coupled with entirely new qualities that challenge our ego and our sense of self.
Twin flames are not only people with whom we connect at the level of the soul but beings with whom we share the same soul.
As the theory says: "Twin flames were separated from the same source of the soul at the dawn of time, and then they were divided into two physical bodies. "
There is a mirror effect when we come into contact with our twin flame - everything that we have tried to flee or deny in our lives suddenly arises in the face.
These types of love expose us to our ego-centered fears and desires - not just about what we feel internal, but also about how we interact with every facet of our lives.
We will not all have the chance to be reunited with our twin flame, but if we are lucky enough, it could only happen once in a lifetime - and it will be so special.
Undoubtedly, there will be fears and many challenges, there will be phases of race and pursuit, depending on the spiritual and personal development of the two individuals.
But no matter how many of these challenges, it is possible to come together and stay with our twin flame - although it is assumed that this can only happen during the last life here on earth.
Regardless of the type of romantic relationship we are in, there will be obstacles and challenges that will have the potential to help us evolve and increase our growth potential.
The most important thing to remember with all these types of relationships is that if someone tries to move on - it is vital that we let it go.
Whether it is a karmic relationship whose sole purpose is to enter our lives to be the catalyst for change, or a soulmate whose aim is to challenge us lovingly to become the best person we Maybe, or that it is simply our tender half - there is no love for which we should be begging or trying to hold firmly, for fear of losing it.
Regardless of the type of relationship we have, the love we deserve is also the one who will want us as much as we want from it - for the truth is that if we love someone, the only thing we can do is to release him, knowing that if the relationship is destined to be - it will come back.
And if he/she does not, then that person is just one of those beautiful lessons we need to learn.
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