Should we let go of the past for a better future?

 

How many times have we attached ourselves to our memories, images of yesterday, and people of the past, without realizing that in order to live the present moment and to grasp the future, we must make a Life and leave aside the feelings and the nostalgia from which emanate certain memories?
Many live in an antecedent past.
This paralysis prevents them from living their reality, from taking advantage of the present moment and considering the future. Living in the past, they are an obstacle to their dreams and goals and take their lives away from others.

3 steps to get past in the past
There are many ways to let go of the past and get rid of it, to leave the bad memories aside and to make way for the famous "carpe diem" in order to live the present moment here and now.
Have you ever stopped to think about those beautiful moments of happiness that you live every day?
A conversation with a friend, a smile exchanged with your companion, a hug for your child, etc.
Thinking about these acts is not enough. Live them when they happen, do not give in to distraction, put away your cell phone, turn off the television and listen to how this ringing ring sounds, enjoy it with your five senses.To take advantage of the present and see the future, we must let go of this past that is so often and for no reason. Let it go, set it aside and continue living. Your life is waiting to be lived.

Read the rest of this article, and you will discover 3 simple steps that, if you cross them, will allow you to no longer live in the past:

Accept

The past can not change, unlike the present and the future. So accept what has happened and free yourself from the guilt you carry on your shoulders and which prevents you from considering the future as well as living the present moment.
Acceptance is fundamental if the problems are to be faced.

Learn

In life, one can learn a lesson from each past experience. We already know what we should not reproduce, and what we should avoid.
If we commit the same error again as in the past, it will no longer be an error, but a choice.
If you had a choice, what would you prefer; Remain anchored in your memories, or exploit every second of the present moment?

Forgive

Often we can not forgive someone who has harmed us or a friend who has deceived us.
Generally, with time, the grudge eventually subsides and dilutes, for to forgive is a way of overcoming this peace with ourselves and with others.
Forgive others, but forgive them truly, without falsehood, and also forgive yourself.
Only in this way will you free yourself from the chains that attach you to the past that you can not change.

Enter the Future

Grant yourself the right to dream, breathe a good blow, think of the future life you would like to live, and do your best and your impossible so that you dreams become reality.
Set yourself a goal, as well as the steps to go through to reach it. What is the home where you would like to live? The places you would like to visit? The work you would like to have? Your perfect companion?
If you ask yourself all these questions and you think that everything depends on luck or others, you are completely wrong because the only person capable of realizing your dreams is yourself.
Nobody will come to ring your door and offer you the work of your dreams, the man or woman you have always dreamed will not come face to face with you one fine day, just like this house by the sea you Dream so much will not appear as if by magic.
Get out and seize the future! Once you have set your goals, think of all the steps you must take to reach them, develop a calendar and plan all the details.
Each period of your life controls your progress and corrects mistakes. Consider that a goal must be clear and concise, measurable and realistic.