If my twin flame doesn't want me, has she ever been my twin flame?
Do you ever think twin flames don't exist?
The twin flame connection is not about looking for a romantic story. A twin flame is your spiritual partner. Meeting your twin flame initiates spiritual awakening.
This connection is intense, unexpected and very different from any other connection. And it is not necessarily that you see the love of this partner from the first moment. It depends on his energy, past events in his life. Many things come to the surface when faced with intense energy like the presence of your divine partner. You may often notice that your twin is uncomfortable seeing you. Or that he hates you. You can't even speak normally. As if there is intensity in your connection in a negative way. However, slowly, as your journey progresses, things will change. Both of you are going to be awakened to this connection and in harmony with each other. Even though it is a long journey with lots of synchronicities, miracles, signs, etc.
In short, don't try to identify your connection based on your twin flame's "romantic interest" in you.