The birth charts are about your personality, events, and challenges, in this life.
It has nothing to do with your soul. When your soul chooses its mission, it chooses certain forces based on what will work best for this lifetime. These choices have little to do with who YOU are as a co-creator. So your soul chooses characteristics between you and your twin that will work for your own journey in this lifetime. So let’s say your soul wants to be a lot of intense attraction, between you, but with difficulty seeing things in the eye, in your physical plan, it would choose birth aspects that are very opposite to each other in order to work through these things.
For example, you and your twin may not have similar signs.
You have tons of fire in your chart and he has tons of water in his chart. This is going to create a very intense attraction between you due to an important polarity. In this case, the triggers are going to happen very easily. Your twin can distance themselves easily. You may think your twin is ignoring you. “How can they go away like this without any explanation? Later, when they come back, you want to protect yourself, you are afraid they will run again. When they were trying to connect with you, you push them away because you feel they were already going to abandon you anyway. This is the process of running and Chasing.
Either way, the birth chart won’t tell you if someone is or isn’t your twin flame.
What it can tell you are the challenges you face in your connection due to the current life circumstances you were born into in this incarnation. Knowing about these challenges can help you understand where you need to heal, grow, and develop in order to make communication with your twin that can be much smoother. Once you understand your twin and why they react in that way, it makes everything so much easier. In brief, try not to make any hypotheses in your twin flame connection, especially not negative ones.
The twin flame connection is a soul connection. And it doesn’t fit into any other relationship rules.
It has its own rules…and those rules may differ on a case-by-case basis.
When one of the twin flames begins to seek the judgment given by the birth charts, the mind begins to seek “outside support”, which increases the feeling that – things are not in your hands… somewhere the person begins to lose their own inner confidence. (In brief, the person tends to focus less on the inner guidance and more on the information from the outside.
Often, it is better to keep this subject as a simple question of pleasure… rather than making it a big thing.