Most twin flames think this way.
By distancing themselves from their twins, they compare everyone to them. The twin flame eventually realizes that they only love their twin. So if they can’t be with them, they prefer to be alone. But, does the twin flame runner feel the same when trying to move on with their life?
At the beginning of the journey, most twins feel this way, that all they want is their twin’s love. However, you have to be open to the possibilities and to this journey.
Never decide to be alone. Be open. And, at the same time, it’s also unnecessary to force yourself to be with someone else.
Try never to compare your twin with others. There is no comparison here.
You cannot compare your twin flame to anyone else. They have their own unique place in your heart.
This kind of comparison prevents you from being fully happy. When you compare your twin to others, you do that under your system of values and thoughts, your own point of view, and the way you are seeing things. This is just your perspective. So you feel the other is not good enough.
Whereas, each person has their own system in life to respect. Respect and appreciate others as they are. They would have their own good character traits, and we should respect them as individuals, not compare them to our twin flame.
On the other side, the runner may not feel the same as you.
This is because the Soul Lessons you signed up for and the Soul Lessons your Twin flame signed up for may be different.
It’s a big mistake you make when you compare your life situations with those of your twin and expect them to go through the same experiences as well. And if they don’t feel the same way you do, you end up feeling like you’re the only victim of your own situation. It’s not like that, and it doesn’t work that way.
Simply, avoid comparing your living situation with your twin’s living situation.