If you meet your real twin flame, are you supposed to be together?
In this life, we all start on the path we think we should follow; but, in truth, sometimes it differs greatly from where our souls are meant to be. We make choices based on our upbringing and family conditioning, without stopping to determine whether we are following our own hearts or the expectations of our beloved ones.
This is why twin flames show up in our lives.
These types of soul contracts arise in order to turn things around. They can redirect us back into the path of our HEARTS…
Twin flames do not come together instantly, as the love and relationships they find themselves in are actually by-products of the actual journey. Twins are supposed to trigger each other and that’s the very purpose of UNION.
However, there is no way to become what we are meant to be by remaining what we were.
Often it seems that the twins think that they have ruined their twin flame relationship. They think “NOT NOW” means “NEVER,” and they did or said the wrong thing, pushing their twin away forever.
Yet the reality is that this will never happen.
There is no way to truly lose a twin flame connection, although, at a certain moment, it might be the case. Twins often need to walk alone through the early phases of awakening and ascension. So there may be long breaks in the journey and triggered ego, but there will never be a way to truly ruin the sacred union between these two.
This means that not only will everything happen in divine time… but also that we can never really mess up what is meant for us. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that there is an ultimate plan for each of us, perhaps a plan that was arranged before we came to Earth…
Yet it is only our fear that keeps us from realizing our true plan.
In twin flame dynamics, this is supposed to be difficult. The runner leaves multiple times, and the chaser feels abandoned. Unless these souls are going through these specific dynamics, there is ultimately no way they will be triggered enough to engage in the overall process. Ascension and vibrational alignment.
There is a false belief that twins are not meant to come together in this lifetime. When things get tough or they break up.
However, the reality is that, if the twin flames venture far enough together to begin the ascension and the actual runner and chaser phase, then they are, IN FACT, meant to reunite in this LIFETIME. This is the whole point of the stages of the journey they will embark on…
Should we aim for a twin flame physical union?
One twin will sometimes treat the other terribly, when they run from their relationship. The twin flame will blame this unawakened twin and forget that the universe can play its part in awakening them within time. However, when you keep thinking that your twin flame ignores and avoids you, all your focus will be on them. You are not yet starting your awakening journey. Here, it becomes easier to tell that the twin flame union is not meant to be, or even that maybe you are not true twin flames. You just want it to be.
In general, as long as the chaser still feels hurt by the behavior of the runner, they are not yet ready to show unconditional love for their twin.
The purpose of separation and union is not only to trigger each other so that they can go through the stages of soul development, but also to test and learn how to have unconditional love. Twin flames are here to awaken, raise their consciousness and learn to practice and embody unconditional love, which is the highest vibration of divine energy. The twins are meant to come together in this lifetime to help encourage the surrounding others. The more twin flames come together, the more the consciousness of the planet becomes higher.
When we think the twins aren’t meant to be together because their connection is out of control, we attract an energy of helplessness.
We get that kind of feeling when we try to rationalize and use logic, the same as we think about in an ordinary relationship. We have to work on our energy first, in order to find the inner balance. When we create a divine connection between this universe and us and activate our higher potential such as telepathy, signs, and dreams. We will be able to decide whether the physical union is the right choice for us, as twin flames, or whether it is better to keep apart. Because there is a mission, we are here to accomplish and our journey on earth is short. We cannot waste the time of “I have to be with my twin flame, so that I can be happy and so I am ready for any mission”. This is wrong.