How do I stop thinking about my twin flame every day?
You can stop thinking about your twin flame the same way you stop doing anything that hurts you.
Obviously, thoughts somehow impede your happiness, maybe you lose focus at work, maybe you get distracted to the point of forgetting about your other relationships, or maybe this makes you dwell on the ‘could have’ and ‘should have’ and ‘what if’. Something is wrong in your life right now, and you see it is because you are thinking too much about your twin flame.
If everything was going well and thoughts about your twin flame were helping your growth, you wouldn’t be asking this question:
What should I do to stop these thoughts?
You can find answers with a spiritual, emotional, and even psychological approach, which can really help you. And yet, you can know how to act accordingly.
You and your twin flame are still connected, and you will eventually unite with them. It is a fact. You must make your brain understand this, as you have made it understand the law of gravity. It is the only way. There is nothing else. That’s it. You make it your belief.
Then why? That’s because the brain frequently invents negative scenarios — bringing up the sad past, assuming the worst possible future, and guessing at the present — what if they were with someone else? What if they forgot me? Etc. But each time, your belief will rise above the negative thoughts. You know that you are still connected, so why do you worry?
In the rare cases where you are overwhelmed with positive thoughts and simply yearn for connection, you will tell yourself that you are still connected and send them love/wish them luck.
Now let’s take the action part.
Because thoughts and affirmations aren’t enough when you’re trying to stop thinking about someone. You must act.
First, you need to make a list of all the things you like to do or have always wanted to do, choose one, and start doing them one by one. Paint, dance, skate, cook, draw, play sports, play music. Note that you are only going to do things that involve active thinking and active action, not passive thinking and passive action, like watching your favorite movie or listening to music.
You need to keep your brain busy with activities. In this way :
- You will connect with your higher self because you are doing something you love. Anything that brings joy to your soul and makes you happy connects you to infinite consciousness. It’s more like the meditation and inner work that everyone talks about.
- These skills you develop will give you confidence in yourself, and doing what you love is self-love, so it will help you focus on yourself.
Second, work on being the best you can be and do your best.
This will take your “focus on yourself” to another level. Every action you take and every reaction you do should first make you think – “What best can I do in this situation” – and just do it.
Every moment you ask yourself, “What better can I do ?” and you say: “I can better organize my day to be more efficient. I can be a better person.”
Do it before all, talk, think. In this way. Why?
First, you improve. It is a safe way to deal with your negative energy blockages such as anger, resentment, jealousy, and frustration. Maybe you prefer energy healing methods, but honestly, the results only come when you take action.
Second, your soul feels good. When you do this every day, you will feel lighter and lighter inside. This is how you do your inner work. You cannot change the past. But when you change your present, your future automatically changes. Over time, your soul will clear all negative blockages.
Third, you take care of others simply by working on yourself.
Fourth, it brings your focus back to yourself. You are constantly improving. Taking away thoughts of your twin flame.
Everyone says you can’t stop thinking about your twin flame. But it’s your brain. And these are your thoughts. You can always change your goal.