Why do twin flames connect and separate many times?
If two flames are always together, there will be no trigger to awaken them. They will just end up living a normal human life. Which will block their spiritual growth.
However, when you are separated, you are broken. The intense love you feel for them makes separation difficult to bear.
If you see it from a positive perspective, separation will help you:
1. Start the awakening process.
2. Not only do you grow with your physical body, but your inner self grows as well. When we are immature, we have low emotional intelligence. Furthermore, your spiritual immaturity is related to your ego. Twin flame relationships are essentially about dissolving the ego.
3. You learn self-love and respect: If you can’t love yourself, you can’t love others. In such cases, love is “shaped” by need, co-dependence, and “conditions.” We can never give unconditional love without first showing ourselves unconditional love.
4. You learn more about life: Sometimes this means you need to be in other relationships or get more life experiences before being ready for a twin flame connection. The more experiences you go through, the more you learn, and the wiser you become.
5. Heal. Healing happens on a subconscious level. Healing can include past life experiences, hurt, abandonment, and rejection. When the two connect, they may not be ready to open up to each other, so healing is necessary.
6. It is all about understanding the Divine time: Life is full of mysteries. Often we separate from our twin flame because it is not the right time. Sometimes, it is about ending a certain journey to be able to start a new one. The best thing to do is to trust the divine time. It can be extremely difficult, but as much as you activate your positive energy and empower yourself, you will reach your moment of Divine time.