If the runner forces us to find love within first, does it mean that they cannot learn this lesson?
The Twin Flames, Chaser and Runner, are facing slightly different types of lessons but the meaning is still the same.
Runner Twins often struggle with feelings of unworthiness. They don’t get why they’re being showered with a Love that powerful. They don’t understand what they’ve said or done to make you Love them unconditionally. Some go even further believing that their Counterpart’s Love is not real and it’s just an illusion, believing that it’s not possible for another to actually Love them despite their faults, mistakes and imperfections. They don’t get how and why they’re “perfect just the way they are” for you. They don’t get why such an amazing creature showers them with affection this way. They feel unworthy for Unconditional Love and such high intimacy. It’s not unusual for the Runner to actually hold their Counterpart in extremely high regard and see themselves as not being “fit” or “good” or “perfect” enough to be with them.
And Why? Why does that amazing Love feel odd, confusing and scary to them? Because they don’t love themselves the way you love them. And you, as a twin flame Chaser, don’t love yourself the way you Love them.
So you see? It’s all about Self-Love. It’s just designed a bit differently for both Counterparts: The Chaser needs to learn to Love themselves just as they Love their Twin and the Runner needs to learn to Love themselves just as their Twin loves them.
It is better not try to compare who learns how, what and when. Both Twin flames grow, learn and evolve on the journey, their own way, in their own pace, in their own timing. Don’t worry about the lessons your Counterpart needs to learn and focus on your own. This journey is Divinely guided and Divinely orchestrated, everything is in perfect order and flows naturally for both Twins.