Why does a twin flame runner have control over a chaser?
The one who is running – is always consciously or subconsciously feeling that they are the one who is controlling this connection and this by running and not showing up.
It is not from the perspective of controlling negatively but they feel ‘safe’ in where they know they can decide what they want and what they don’t.
If you dig deeper, it is about safeguarding their vulnerable side, which they do not want to let out at any cost. Because if that comes out then – all the other societal fears/pressures (due to their conditioning of ego) will start to show up.
So they are the ones who ghost the other, block the other, and give silent treatment. — by doing this they are hiding their vulnerable side and running away from facing their conditioned issues. — this is comfortable for them as they feel this is in their hands.
It is more about keeping things their way – (so they can better deal with it) than controlling the other. It is not about the power play but dealing with their states.