Does the Divine Masculine Go Through the Dark Night of the Soul in the Twin Flame Journey?
Many people wonder if the Divine Masculine (DM) experiences the Dark Night of the Soul during the twin flame journey. The answer is yes—but it looks different from how the Divine Feminine (DF) experiences it.
For the more spiritually inclined twin, typically the DF, the Dark Night of the Soul manifests as an intense inner transformation. This may involve deep introspection, a longing to connect with the Divine, and seeking answers through spirituality, meditation, or esoteric studies. The pain of separation can trigger a powerful awakening, leading the DF to explore the higher purpose of the twin flame connection.
On the other hand, the matrix-oriented counterpart—the DM—may not process this shift in the same overtly spiritual way. Instead of turning inward, they often become more absorbed in their material life. They may throw themselves into work, seek external distractions, or indulge in lavish experiences such as vacations, social events, or even new relationships. From an outside perspective, it may appear that they are unaffected or even thriving, but internally, they are still undergoing transformation.
Regardless of how it manifests on the surface, both twins are activated by the connection and experience their own version of the Dark Night of the Soul. The key difference is that the Divine Masculine’s awakening often unfolds in a less visible, more subconscious manner.
This journey is far more profound than simply coming together in a romantic sense. The ultimate purpose is to transcend attachment, release expectations, and fully surrender to divine will. Only through surrender and inner healing can both counterparts align with their highest path—whether that leads to union or an even greater spiritual evolution.