How can I focus on myself only?
The magnetic pull and the feeling of this emptiness outside the connection are constant: “I don’t really feel happiness in everyday life, and that’s something I’m supposed to learn. »
We all go through this phase, often it can get worse and can be very painful and exhausting.
All twin flames are going to go through this particular phase of the journey, looking for and following their twin everywhere, until you reach a certain moment where you see that it’s too much. So you decide to do some introspection.
You will take a pause. You focus on your condition, your thoughts, your fears, and your problems, and you will realize that:
You have this constant need to spy on your twin because you have a great fear of losing him. It’s like you don’t want to miss any of his news or updates. You doubt if he has forgotten you, or if he still thinks about you. And often, you just want to talk to him, even without saying anything directly.
Somehow, when you focus on your twin flame by following them on social media, you will enter a state of expectation, looking for a sign that they love you. And often that is enough.
In fact, the way social media has many advantages also has disadvantages. It keeps you in a constant, useless loop.
So it’s okay if you stay away for a period. You won’t lose your twin. And he’s not going to forget you, just because you’re not together.
What you can do is – if social media has become a big challenge in your life, you need to disconnect for a few months. This will help you overcome this loop.
When you do it, you will get a feeling of freedom and strength.
There is only one thing you need to work on in all of this, and that is the fear of losing your twin.
Know that you cannot lose your twin flame, they are always with you. Trust the divine process.
