How did you come to realize that someone is your twin flame? Can you describe the incident that triggered a shift in your mindset towards your twin flame?
Typically, you meet your twin flame before you fully awaken. It’s common not to know the term “twin flame” at that time. When twin flames first meet, they become intuitively aware that something unusually intense and life-changing is occurring, despite not understanding the concept of twin flames. They experience a profound love and recognition of something special, but the realization that they are twin flames usually comes after a period of separation.
The meeting itself is often the triggering incident. The shift in mindset occurs due to the separation and relentless triggering that follows. This painful experience forces twin flames to question everything and deeply examine their behavior.
If they believe they have hurt their twin, they are devastated. This introspection causes them to reevaluate everything they thought they knew. They search online for explanations of the intense love they feel and eventually discover the term “twin flame,” realizing it fits perfectly. This understanding typically comes after the fact. To manage this connection, they must surrender earthly wants and expectations, as it is not usually a 3D connection for a while. Your higher selves will emerge bit by bit, and you will come to recognize them. Even in separation, your higher selves will interact. You will become aware of kundalini awakening as your chakras burst open, experiencing the surge of sacred energies from within. You quickly learn that you have no control over this journey and must accept that everything is happening as it should, through divine guidance.
Acceptance does not come easily. It involves doubt (of yourself and what you think happened) and fear (of how you handled it). You continually second-guess yourself, thinking it couldn’t really be twin flames because it seems so “out there.” You ask the universe for signs and guidance, feeling like you might be going mad because it all sounds unrealistic. But the signs do come. You look back and recall conversations you had with your twin flame, recognizing signs and synchronicities in hindsight that you missed at the time. The pain can be unbearable, but little by little, you come to terms with living with and honoring it. You learn not to hold expectations of what will come to pass, accepting each day with gratitude. Acceptance is the beginning of ascension. The journey is all-encompassing, as your twin is with you spiritually, and you are never truly alone. Your life will never be the same again as you constantly think of them, adjusting to their energy as it ebbs and flows with yours. It is a beautiful experience.
