I don’t believe in twin flames anymore?
I found my mirror soul, I found someone who I thought was my true twin flame, but they chose to be with another person. So, can twin flames hurt each other?
Twin flames can get engaged and/or marry others. It doesn’t matter if you believe in the term “twin flames” or not – if you really are one and take this journey, you will be perfectly guided by the divine even without using this label.
The reason you have this confusion and conflict in belief is because of your understanding of what a twin flame is. The twin flame is your own soul, your spiritual partner. The purpose of your twin is to awaken you on your spiritual path. They are not there to just be your romantic lover/partner. You’re probably expecting a conventional romantic “relationship” with this exact person. This is why you may have too many questions in your head, about why things are not going as you wish.
Here are some truths about twin flames, understanding it can save you time, energy, and stress.
First: remember that the Divine gave YOU life in your human body. Your twin also had a life in a human body. You are both of the same energetic frequency, but you are embodied in two separate physical forms. That’s the very definition of a twin flame, isn’t it? So these two energies can complement each other, but sometimes they can be opposite poles, so they sometimes contradict each other as well.
So what to do?
Focus on YOUR OWN LIFE. You may have already noticed that it’s addictive to follow your twin’s energy and be pulled towards them because of polarity, but that’s not helpful or even fun. It’s stressful when you really think about it. Focusing on someone else is useless to you. Focusing on YOURSELF will help you improve, increase your energy, and move into a life experience you actually ENJOY.
Why, at a certain point, do you feel stuck, and you just want to stop believing in twin flames? This can happen for several reasons…
- Your twin feels the intensity of the energy. So they walks away because it was just too intense.
2. They try to move on by believing in the proverb that says: Out of sight, out of mind.
- They are not yet sufficiently “awakened” to start this journey, and they need time to do so.
- They have their own healing path that they must work on.
Whatever the reason, if you intend to meet your twin, you absolutely will. It will eventually happen, in the meantime, rest and relax.
And while you’re relaxing, go ahead and let go, because if there’s anything in this world that can help you rest, it’s surrender. This means that you will want to RELEASE the very concept of your connection to the Divine. If you are meant to reach union, you will. So worrying about it and living in a fog of “hypothetical thinking” won’t make any difference.
Worrying about why they left you as if being their twin flame meant nothing to them is not helpful. It’s not worth stressing out about because when you’re in union, you may wonder, “Why did I go through so much trouble?” It was useless! »
So focus on YOUR OWN LIFE and enjoy it.