Is it my twin flame, or am I just obsessed with the person?
Let’s go back to the days when you were madly in love with someone at school and obsessed over them walking down the halls. What happens afterward? Either you date them, meet them, and then you realize they are not for you, so move on.
And, even if you went out together and it didn’t go well, you may have been heartbroken. But, you overcome the situation and you decide to move on.
In the Twin Flame connection, your twin is you, so you cannot forget yourself. You can try everything to disconnect but it does not work. Not because you’re obsessed, but because that person is intrinsically connected to you. It’s not your choice (and most of us wish it weren’t) but you are connected to this energy that your twin carries for you.
How many of us have asked for a different path? How many have wished to “move on” and forget?
This connection transcends anything you have ever experienced. It’s something new.
Your twin is not perfect. But, where it is less, you shine, and vice versa.
If this was a normal connection, you would be able to move on in a reasonable period of time and be content. You forget about everything, and over time, that person and their story would become a passing thought.
The reality for most of us on this journey is that we are NOT able to disconnect from our other selves because we need to balance our energies. We have to understand the yin/yang within us. To balance the heart/mind. Now, as we begin to have more peace and are able to transmute energy quite rapidly as we evolve, your twin is still linked to you on a soul level.
We must embrace our soul to come into inner union with the energies. Obsession comes from the mind, not from the heart. You did not come to this earth in this incarnation to play “little ones”. Your divine mission is too great to be accomplished by a single soul. Together, in a union, you raise the vibration of the planet. It’s meant to be and it’s not obsessive.