What are the most common misconceptions about twin flames?
1: Twin Flames can be friends.
Many twin flames try to put a “friends” label on their relationship with their twin flame. Your twin flame can certainly be your best friend, but you are not friends. There is surely a much deeper connection between you two. However, there is no ordinary romantic relationship either.
As humans, we are so conditioned to fit our relationships into good old conventional patterns, but the twin flame connection doesn’t fit anywhere. It is a new model of love and relationship.
2: I am the Chaser, they are the runner. (Or vice versa)
Considering “Chaser” or “runner” as a person takes you away from many real achievements. These are mentalities, not roles. Both can also be at the same time. When you get stuck in this idea that you are a chaser, you unknowingly close off the possibility of introspection completely – what could you be running away from in this regard?
3: Your twin must leave everything and come back to you.
Many are “waiting” for their twin flame to change, end their karmic contracts and come to you. If it is meant to be, it should happen naturally, not by hurting or forcing someone and denying your or their karmic responsibilities. You are on this journey for a reason, but in such scenarios, people seem to get stuck in good old patterns and societal dramas rather than transformation.
4: Your twin is not ready, but you are ready for the meeting.
This feeling itself indicates that you are not in your own balance. If you were ready, you would be in union with yourself, and this thought that your twin is not ready does not reach your mind. Because on some level you already feel one with him.
5: Twin flames go through the same events on their journey.
No. What you are going through, your twin may not be going through. Each of you may go through different experiences during the twin flame journey.
6: You must be in a physical union to activate your mission.
Most twin flames have been part of the collective mission since birth and carry much of the mission vibrationally without consciously knowing it. Your twin flame is an integral part of your mission – and it is energetic in nature. The experience you are going through and the energy you carry, the love you carry for your twin flame is part of your mission.
As for individual missions, your mission will be activated when you act from your heart center.
7: As a twin flame, you are by default able to carry the individual mission.
No, being a twin flame is not to activate the individual mission. Your spiritual guides will test you before this and ensure that you are ready to hold and carry out your mission spiritually, energetically, mentally, and physically. Otherwise, it will not be revealed to you.
