Why is the union of twin flames not immediate?
Why are there steps to recognize each other as twin flames? Why should we go through doubts about whether the person is our twin flame or not?
When you think about how you met all the other relationships, you feel them as mere physical relationships. You met them, found them attractive, there was an attraction and then you date each other. You are together. Then, over time, you got to know them and realized that they weren’t for you. All of their energy baggage is then mounted, but, you don’t care.
On the other side, your twin flame relationship often starts in the opposite direction. You spend a lot of time talking and “aligning” with their soul. You talk with your twin even when they are not in front of you. And you feel their love. But you are not quite able to touch them. You get to know the soul of the other.
As you move into separation, then healing, you learn more of your twin flame. Their biggest fears (and yours) are coming to the surface for you to heal. You, then, understand that you’re not ready to be with your twin until you heal yourself.
After meeting your twin flame, the negative baggage shows up so that you get rid of it from your connection. In all cases, you will end up working on your healing process until you find your true self.
All the healing you do, while you’re apart, paves the way for you to be together without all the excuses that keep people apart. When your twin awakens to their true self, their love for you, and how they react, change. There is more peace with every step they take and no more fears.
With their previous relationships, your twin felt the need to be accepted by the other, but they were never interested in being connected together on a deep level. With you, your twin already finds the deepest connection they have ever felt. Often their soul makes the decision to leave and walk away to protect you. Perhaps, your twin is not yet ready for this relationship, they need time for themselves in order to do the necessary healing in their own energy field. When can you receive the sign that your twin has succeeded in their spiritual awakening?
The moment you are not AT ALL triggered by their behaviors, immediately understand that they boosted their energy. The common energy field between you becomes more balanced. Ultimately, until you immediately believe that whatever is happening to you is for your best, you are not yet neutral in your energy with your twin, and you will not balance your inner masculine and feminine.
Trust your heart. Believe that you can pave the way for a beautiful union, where the baggage is left outside and nothing comes in without your consent.
